Our #1 suggestion for anyone looking to provide intervention around substance use, especially of a young person, is to stop and ask "Why?" 

Why are you choosing to use substances?

Why are you needing something to alter your brain, alter your experiences of today, alter your perceptions of the world around you, alter yourself? 

Parents often jump to "Who were you with?" "What did you use?", "Where did you get it?" and skip "Why?" entirely. 

 Be careful not to assume that you know the reasons. Be open to the possibility that things going on in their life that you aren't fully aware of, or understand.  Listen with an open mind, and accept their experience is their own. 

We strongly encourage you to talk with your loved one about why.

If you are looking for intervention supports, we recommend looking at the Partnership to End Addiction, they have a number of supports, including a Risk Assessment Survey that may help you determine the level of need your child is currently facing.  

Signs & Symptoms of Problematic Substance Use

If a person is abusing any drug, there are some of the general signs to look for. These include:

  • Difficulties at school, disinterest in school-related activities, and declining grades

  • Poor work performance, being chronically late to work, appearing tired and disinterested in work duties, and receiving poor performance reviews

  • Changes in physical appearance, such as wearing inappropriate or dirty clothing and a lack of interest in grooming

  • Altered behavior, such as an increased demands for privacy

  • Drastic changes in relationships

  • A noticeable lack of energy when performing daily activities

  • Spending more money than usual or requesting to borrow money

  • Issues with financial management, such as not paying bills on time

  • Changes in appetite, such as a decreased appetite and associated weight loss

  • Bloodshot eyes, poor skin tone, and appearing tired or run down

  • Defensiveness when asked about substance use

Use may become addiction when users continue to seek and use drugs or alcohol despite the negative impacts of using the substance.

How to Spot Drug Use in Adolescents

While overall moodiness can simply be part of adolescence and the teen years, drug use is generally signified by more drastic changes in mood or behaviors in this age group. Per the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), signs of drug use in adolescents include acting withdrawn, tired, depressed, or hostile.

Parents should take note when a child starts associating with a different group of peers, as changes in peer groups may be linked with substance use. An adolescent using drugs might also miss classes, skip school, or change their eating or sleeping habits. Parents can also listen for their kids using slang terms for certain drugs of abuse.

If drug use is suspected, prompt intervention is vital. Parents can get help from guidance counselors, primary care physicians, and drug abuse treatment providers.

The Importance of Early Intervention & Treatment

If drug use is suspected, early invention is essential to ensure the most robust chances of successful recovery. Friends and family members may choose to stage an intervention once signs of drug use are apparent; if so, a professional interventionist can guide the planning process and the execution of the event for best results.